Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Our first year: July-December 2011


So, I am still playing catch-up with this blog. I think I will need to write about 5 or 6 more blog posts (plus a few extra posts about India) before I will be fully caught up with what Andrew and I are up to these days. Now that classes are over for me and Andrew is still in school for another month, I have some time on my hands, so expect quite a few posts coming up. These are mostly for us and our “journal keeping” more than anything else, so sorry if they are really long. Hopefully you can enjoy all the pictures!

At the end of my last (aka first ever) post, I left off with our honeymoon to Mexico. About a week after we got home, we had an open house with our friends and family in Utah. 

At the Brigham City Open House: July 8, 2011.



The Kennedys hosted it in their backyard and it was quite a ball. A big thanks to the Kennedy family for all they did to get the house and yard (and the newly painted fence!) sparkling and beautiful.

Andrew's parents and Grandma Stratford


My awesome sisters-in-law Caroline and Rachel.

I want to give a big shout-out to Logan Havens for coming to the reception spur of the moment and documenting everything. We have him to thank for all the great pictures!

Andrew and his dad both wore matching kilts the whole night. I thought they looked pretty spiffy representing the Kennedy clan.


The Scottish theme continued at the end of the evening with a surprise bagpiper performance. I think this may have sparked Andrew's subsequent research into how much a set of bagpipes cost. (Turns out they are really expensive, so he had to settle for an accordion. More on that another time.) 



Another memorable part of the night was when one of Andrew’s good friends from Brigham City, Michael Brown, gave Andrew his wedding present.



Yeah, it was a sword.



The sword is currently hanging on our living room wall.


Here are some pictures of my family at the open house. Andrew and I loved seeing our families all interacting and having fun together--seriously!

My parents.

Me, my older sister Rachel, my mom, and my younger sister Camille.
The yellow and blue quilt below is the bride's quilt that Andrew's mom made for our wedding. On the right (it's a little hidden) is the picnic quilt that all the Kennedy/Stratford gals helped tie at a bridal shower before we got married. We had them on display at the open house. Lots of love and memories in these quilts. 

The open house was a wonderful night to remember. After that, things kind of went back to "normal" and we began to figure out this thing called being married. 

Overall I'd say our first summer together was a great one. We went on a few camping and canyoneering adventures in July and August. The most memorable one was in Blue John Canyon. 

Getting ready to repel.

Learning how to stem was scary, but I liked it by the end of the 10 hour trip.
This is the same canyon where Aron Ralston had to cut his own arm off (ever seen 127 Hours?). While none of us lost limbs, we did actually become majorly dehydrated. We were not prepared for the insane rock climbing required to get out of the canyon, and as a result the trip took about 3 hours longer than we thought it would and we all ran out of water WAY before the end.

On a ledge almost to the top. I thought we would never make it.

Out of the canyon, heading back to the car. 

Once we got back to the car it was another hour-long drive to any type of civilization, but eventually we made it and everyone was okay. 

Random building by the trailhead. I think we all want to die at this point.

Ironically, on the drive there we saw this sand dune and thought this would be a funny pose. 
Besides just playing in Southern Utah, there was also a lot of work to be done. Earlier in the summer I had been chosen to be the student speaker at the BYU Commencement Ceremony which was the second week of August. Delivering that speech in the Marriott Center was stressful but exhilarating, and overall a once-in-a-lifetime experience. 


The summary of my speech was how much I appreciated that at BYU, spiritual and secular learning are really interconnected. If you want to see the full speech my dad uploaded it to YouTube here. (I debated whether to include this link because I hate watching myself talk, but Andrew thought I should. Don't feel obligated to listen to it though.)

The President of BYU, Cecil Samuelson, and his wife Sharon.
Andrew walked during the August commencement as well, since he was going to graduate in December and graduation ceremonies are only in April and August. It was great weekend.


As soon as commencement was over and I had officially earned my Bachelor Degree, I immediately started studying. I was getting ready to start a Masters program in mathematics that fall, and the first major hurdle was passing two 4-hour qualifying exams in Abstract Algebra and Analysis. The last week in August leading up to the quals was probably one of the most stressful weeks ever, but thankfully I passed both of them!

During the fall, Andrew took on his final semester of undergrad, which included a diving class and a pottery class—why not? 

In October he began the exciting/terrifying process of dental school interviews. Andrew flew to the east coast three separate times within a month and a half, and let me say that I got pretty good at driving to the Salt Lake Airport! But it was all worth it, because by the beginning of January he had been accepted to all five schools where he interviewed. We felt extremely grateful and blessed that this long application process ended in such a positive way for us. I was and still am so proud of Andrew for all of his hard work to turn his goals into reality. 

While Andrew was traveling across the country, I was undertaking my first (and awfulest-is that a word?) semester of graduate school. Getting a masters degree in one year was kind of insane now that I think about it. I had to take 12 credits of graduate level mathematics that semester, and I just about died.

My second home: the Talmage (aka Math) building.
Andrew was extremely supportive during my multiple breakdowns over Topology—probably the most frustrating class of my life. Thankfully I had other interesting classes that kept me motivated to finish my degree, and I survived the first semester.

Overall, let’s just say that the fall was quite a change from the summer, but we learned a lot and grew together through the challenges.  

In between all of the craziness we were able to spend a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday with my family in La Crescenta, CA. We road tripped down from Provo, UT with my sisters Rachel and Camille and my brother-in-law Chris, and it was a blast. Even though it's a 10-hour-drive, we kind of miss being able to do stuff like that now that we are in New York. 

I guess Camille is the one taking the picture.
We went to Andrew’s house in Brigham City, UT for Christmas and up to the Kennedy family ranch for New Years. Let me just interject here to say that I love the Kennedys! They are a super fun family and I feel really grateful to have such wonderful in-laws.

Caroline got us all mustache straws.

Going shooting at the ranch. 

Well, that's it for our first 6 months. Coming soon: how we ended up in Stony Brook, NY.

Monday, March 25, 2013

Meet the Kennedys


Starting a blog was one of those things that I planned on doing as soon as Andrew and I got married. But life happens, and here we are! At long last, we have finally joined the blogging world. I’m planning on keeping this updated, so if you have no idea what is going on in our lives I can now say that it is no longer completely our fault :)

For my first blog post, I think a little introduction to who we are and how we met is in order. Sorry this is so long! But there are lots of pictures to keep you going. 

Andrew Dale Kennedy was born and raised in Brigham City,Utah, about an hour north of Salt Lake.

Brigham City is the county seat of Box Elder County.
Check out this adorable picture of little Andrew:




As you can see, his love for adventure and the great outdoors was instilled at a young age.

Pretty impressive for lil' whippersnapper. 
I was born in Santa Barbara, CA. When I was two we moved to La Crescenta, CA, and that’s where I grew up.


Although I have also lived in Utah and now New York, I think I’ll always be a California girl at heart.

Mormon Night at Dodger Stadium. 
Andrew and I both decided to attend Brigham Young University in Provo, UT for college. We met on a study abroad at the BYU Jerusalem Center in September 2008.


Andrew and me by the Dome of the Rock in Jerusalem
We actually sat by each other on the plane ride to the Holy Land. It wasn’t exactly love at first sight, but Andrew won me over and we were both pretty interested in each other by the time we left the Jerusalem Center four months later.


Pools of Bethesda in Jerusalem
Living in Jerusalem and visiting Egypt, Jordan, and Galilee were life-changing experiences for both of us, and not just because that was where we met our future spouse. We saw some incredible places, learned a lot about Judaism, Islam, and Christianity, and met some wonderful people who have become our lifelong friends.


Jordan
Sea of Galilee
After coming home from Jerusalem we had some ups and downs, but finally got on the same page and dated for about 14 months. We had some great adventures during that year together in Provo.


Cutting down a Christmas tree from the mountains. Andrew and a bunch of friends dressed up like lumberjacks. I was the only girl there...ha. It was epic. 


Harry Potter themed dance. So fun! We went all out. Oh, and Andrew sewed our cloaks and ties and crocheted his scarf. And carved our wands from some sticks we found by his apartment. 

Olvera Street in Los Angeles

Bridal Veil Falls hike in Provo Canyon

Andrew taught me how to write in Elvish while we were in Jerusalem so we could write notes to each other that no one else could read. I thought it was pretty cute. 


I was part of the BYU Women's Chorus for two years. This is after one of our concerts. 
We got engaged on February 9th, Andrew’s 25th birthday.  That night, I took Andrew to Rock Canyon thinking that I was bringing him to a super secret surprise party. Turns out the “party” was Andrew serenading me at sunset and then getting down on one knee to pop the question, so I was the one in for a surprise!

Andrew and I were married and sealed for time and all eternity on June 25, 2011 in the Los Angeles LDS Temple.


The wedding took place in a small private ceremony inside the temple. You aren't allowed to take pictures inside the temple, so we just have pictures of us coming out of the temple doors and on the grounds outside.  


Just after the wedding ceremony.
We were so grateful for all of our friends and family that came to California for the wedding. We love you all so much! It was wonderful to be around so many people that we care about.


The whole group.

My great-grandmother and grandparents. We love and miss Grandpa Bill. 

Grandma Stratford (Andrew's grandmother)

My old roomies, Cambrie and Remi <3

Johnson Family

Kennedy Family

Bridesmaids: sisters and besties from California

The groomsmen. This tree is now gone by the way.
After the ceremony, we had a wedding breakfast at a nearby church. I remember all the people who sang songs and our parents talking and giving us marriage advice. We also carried on some fun traditions.

A surprise rendition of "Halo" by Beyonce--one of my favs

Kennedy siblings singing "Bridesmaids are in Yellow." 
Caroline wrote the lyrics to the tune of "Yellow" by Coldplay. 


A Tahitian wedding tradition started at Andrew's parents' wedding by his uncle, 
who had just come home from a mission in Tahiti.


The "pinning of the tartan." Our wedding had somewhat of a 
Scottish theme per Andrew's request.
That evening we had a reception, where my mom arranged to have a bagpiper give us a surprise performance.



Andrew's lifelong dream of wearing a kilt to his wedding was partially fulfilled. He wore it to the Wedding Breakfast and to our reception in Utah. 


Being lifted up on chairs to the Jewish wedding song "Hava Nagila" at the reception that night. 


Our first dance, "Crazy for this girl." This was the song Andrew sang to me right before he proposed.
Afterwards we left on our honeymoon to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. And thus began the adventure of a lifetime!


We stayed at an awesome resort on the beach.


Four wheeling through the jungle.
A lot has happened since our wedding day, but I think this is a good place to stop. More posts to follow about our first year in school, Hawaii with the Kennedys, India, and some of our adventures since we moved to New York.